The Universe is the Frequency of Love and Heart

Benedikta Štokelj and Dragica Čarna

Magazine Suzy, 5.5.23; Written by Mateja Blažič Zemljič; Copyright translation in English by Benedikta Štokelj

Mother and daughter live in Brussels where they work as Energetic Therapists, but they also visit Slovenia frequently. Dragica has a Master's degree in Italian and Slovenian literature, has worked as a professor at several foreign universities and European institutions, is a poet, aphorist, and flamenco lover, a natural source of creativity and inspiration, and has been a healer and Reiki practitioner for 28 years. Benedikta is a Master of Holistic Healing who can see the human aura, the blockages, and the blockages in it since she was born with the gift of clairvoyance and insight into the spiritual world. In the challenging times we live in, they emphasize that we need to come from within, do what makes us happy, and be energetically fluid. Everything else brings disease.

Both point out that the Age of Aquarius is based on helping society with our individual abilities. "Already in Greek and Egyptian temples, each pillar represented a person. They realized that a building cannot stand on just one, no matter its strength. But today, as a society, we come from the negative, from fear. All those who manipulate with bad information are speaking about their own frequencies. Yet the light is stronger than the darkness, and the universe is the frequency of love and the heart," says Dragica. "Anyone who does not have an open heart, who is not fluid and grounded, is vulnerable and open to viruses."

"We can be like a cypress tree in the wind, which is broken by everything, or an oak tree - healthy and with a strong immune system," says Benedikta. At the same time, Dragica adds that when we are flowing, we are automatically on a higher frequency. "We keep meeting people like this and different people, not just those who vibrate with us because we reincarnate with the intention to learn. But we have the key to lock the door against outside intrusion."

Energy Protection

Benedikta sees angels as transparent energies of different colors. "We all have our lifelong personal guide; depending on the soul's development and mission, other teachers come at different times. Sometimes our deceased also bring us messages, but we don't call them out of curiosity or anything like that. They are in the world of another dimension, where they are not disturbed, except for therapeutic purposes, if we ask them for help," she explains. She also receives their messages but does not ask for them.

"So much information from the world throws us off balance, and we just have to turn off our 'cable' so it doesn't get to us."

And how do we protect ourselves from negative influences?

"The best way to take care of yourself energetically is to be grounded and imagine yourself in a bulletproof crystal egg, protected from the outside world, and then in a purple triangle inside it. There is a bulletproof white golden glass between you and the world, so nothing gets to you," says Dragica, adding that we can imagine this even when we have a hard time when we don't know what is true, when we want bad news to stay away. "Violet is the frequency that protects us, that heals us. At the same time, we trust that everything will be okay, we make sure our thoughts are loving, we take care of our flow and groundedness," she stresses, adding that we should work on ourselves rather than finding out where the fake news is coming from and what is true. "When we deal with people on lower frequencies than us, we don't insult or judge them, but we don't explain anything to them either. "Even if they are negative towards us, we send them the energy of love back. We will not change their opinion because they operate on a different frequency than us, which does not mean we let them insult, hurt or be rude to us. We show them our limits but let us respond with the energy of love." Dragica emphasizes and continues: "If someone provokes us, they draw energy from us. They enter our space and regulate 'our washing machine.' When we set boundaries, it's like switching off the electricity so it doesn't start. So we don't let outside influences get to us. So much information from the world throws us off balance, and we have to turn off our cable so it doesn't get to us. We have the key within ourselves. We can't influence what we are sold, but we can work on ourselves and influence the world."

Love instead of fear. Both agree that trying to convey anything to people who cannot understand certain truths is pointless. "The 'forcible Christianization' of others only brings us even greater enemies. With spiritual work, we are strong and protected, we activate our energy, we live in a vibration of love, in which we are joined by others who feel us and rise to our frequency," says Dragica and repeats: "If we just look for who wants what for us, we are on a frequency of mistrust and fear. Fear, however, is not a productive emotion. When we let everything external come to us, our 'washing machine' is regulated by others. It is only when we switch off the electricity that we are at our core and listen to ourselves. We go for a walk; we go into nature; we work; we are creative; we create our own life, not the media, social networks, online 'influencers,' colleagues, and neighbors. People voluntarily give up themselves and follow guided opinions."

"Believe what you feel, not all the nonsense others say. Everything has to come from within." Benedikta says that on Earth, we reincarnate from everywhere, and all come to learn and gain experience. "Naive and energy-unbalanced people do not believe in themselves, but in false propaganda. They are programmed to fear, believe lies, and spread them. The bigger the group, the stronger its frequency. But fundamentally, we are all light - and if we are energetically flowing, we can be nothing but love." She points out that our clairvoyance also opens up when we are no longer blocked by worry and fear, which can be seen in the aura as fog around the head. "Of course, we are compassionate, but as the Dalai Lama said, we are not the Christ to bear the suffering of the whole world. Doing this will not change anything; we will only destroy ourselves. So let's not focus on what's bad, but instead, let's think about what's good that will happen to us," she urges, adding that we must know that people who have done terrible things in past lives also come to Earth. "Now this is happening to them; it's karmic compensation. One of the karmically worst actions is if someone deliberately desecrates another's grave. Such a person is accompanied by misfortune in this life and the next. The souls of the deceased come most easily to their grave and connect with us there if they have not yet reincarnated again." Benedikta says that other souls join them there and that the grave is a sacred place. She advises that before buying a house, one should check the history of the land on which it stands. "If it's on a grave site, there are energies trapped there, the same as in places where someone has committed suicide. If we don't bring them into the light, the energy of pain and despair feeds on the negative and drains the living person."

Energies in a relationship: "We are always looking for causes of unhappiness outside ourselves, but when you're satisfied, you don't talk behind people's backs. When you're happy, you're not rude to them. We all have our energy flow, and everyone should enrich it by doing what makes them happy - as a hobby for themselves, if not at work. We need to be creatively playful. This awakens our vital energy, propelling us forward and making us different from others. So be aware that you have the keys to 'your car.' Don't cry in front of it, drive it, but don't give the keys to others to drive it," Dragica points out. "Believe what you feel, not all the nonsense others say. Everything has to come from within. Even in a relationship, each partner must have their energy, and the energies must not mix," she says. Benedikta adds that only a healer can enter our energy field if we allow them to. "We shouldn't solve our partner's problems if they don't ask us to; it's like an energy intrusion. We can feel bad for them when they are in need, but we must set boundaries, or we will get sick. The same applies to friends and taking on everything that is not ours. There is no common aura in a partnership. A relationship is healthy if both are independent, respect each other, and do not invade each other's energetic space. It can end the relationship when they start doing the latter with jealousy, anger, and reproaches. Working on yourself means listening to each other, hearing each other, and respecting that. Our thoughts and feelings are the basis for being independent and fluid. We need to be what we must be - anything else brings illness."